Outer display is one thing and inner practice is other, to meet the ultimate soul mate one needs to practice at its inner cord through realization and meditating unto truth of supreme.
Duality of mind leads one to the net of delusion but rigid faith unto self and the grace of lord makes one reach at the truth of self. A complete one pointed absorption in lord, unruffled by the agitations of senses and the mind, is the essence truth to make one reach at the glory of supreme spirit.
Experience of the Union of mind with essential truth is really wondrous. True aspirant on the path of truth make it to drink the nectar of divine love in ever increasing blissful ecstasy, yet make no outer display.
As the love deepens, yearning of the lover increasing intensified-true lover never satisfied with glamour of celestial abodes; nothing short of his beloved can satisfy him and inner practice alone act as media to make it.
May lord bless all.
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